Register for When Your Light Is Eclipsed:

A FREE online gathering,

constellating the inner dance of light and dark

June 20, 2026, 10:00am - 12:00 pm Eastern

With prizes for those who attend LIVE!

Many of us didn’t choose to dim our light. We inherited it.

 

This free experiential event explores the inherited patterns that eclipse our radiance: the unspoken agreements, trauma bonds, and ancestral loyalties that taught brilliance to soften itself in order to belong. Solar and lunar eclipses offer rare moments when celestial events align to support us in ending a cycle, recasting a story, or completing a relationship to make space for something new to emerge. What dims your luminosity from within? 

 

Often, the most highly sensitive being in a family system is assigned a role to carry or caretake the shadow, the darkness, the suffering in a way that moves them out of alignment with their soul. We do it well, and we do it for love, and later we may find we have made a career out of the skillset we developed or repeat the same patterns in our relationships, and find our lifeforce draining. We realize the cost of our conditioned belonging and we face a choice to shift our position and release the servitude to pain.

It is clearer than ever before that sacrificing your own brilliance, your light body, does little to make your or anyone else’s life better. 

 

You serve best when you are at your best. 

 

You inspire and love best when you speak your truth, because it is precious, sacred, and yours.

This is the time to anchor your brilliance and courage, sink roots into the deep Earth, drink in the nutrients and light of the galaxy as you rise up. The ancestors and spirit guides are reaching out for you. The mycelium network is kissing the soles of your feet to tickle awake evolution’s most perfect creature: you.

June 20, 2026

12:00 - 2:00PM Eastern

FREE: Our Gift to You

PLUS!
There will be a draw of prizes for those who attend live! (details below)

 

Sucheta Misra

“I felt a very special energy from Dan and Emily and this container that they hold for their community. It felt caring, inclusive, and soulful...all the things I was looking for in a community.

I brought my deepest fears and shadows as well as my wildest dreams to Seeing with Your Heart and I was embraced with a level of understanding, depth and championing that I truly have never experienced before.

I would recommend Seeing With Your Heart to anyone who has felt there is more to themselves and their lives that is yet to be uncovered. Seeing With Your Heart will open up your heart and soul to reveal your true self.”

Together, within the intuitive field of Seeing With Your Heart’s Alchemical Constellations, we’ll explore:

  • Where light was eclipsed in your lineage

  • How unconscious ways of belonging keep old shadows alive

  • What becomes possible when radiance is welcomed back

 

This gathering includes:

  • A live constellation-based exploration of inherited eclipse patterns

  • A teaching from Cilla of Cross Cultural Journeys on the sacred land, lineage, and cultural context of Spain, offering insight into why this place

  • An astrologer’s perspective on the 2027 solar eclipse and its symbolic, psychological, and collective significance



Two prize giveaways where we will draw winners from the live attendance:

1) A FREE 60-minute session with Dan Cohen from Seeing With Your Heart:
Dan’s sessions weave the transformative power of Alchemical Constellations with
deep intuitive insight to illuminate the unseen patterns shaping your life,
relationships, health, and sense of belonging.

2) A FREE 60-minute ✦ STELLAR CONSTELLATION ✦ session with
Stephanie Gailing: In this session, we explore intergenerational patterns and
family dynamics that may have limited your capacity to step fully into your
potential. This constellation is astrologically informed. Before we meet, Stephanie
reflects on your birth chart and current transits and progressions. This
perspective helps you clarify intentions, recognize entanglements, and access
the resources that support your life’s unfolding. As our session concludes,
Stephanie may offer simple ways to honor what has been revealed, such as
creating an altar or a small ritual to continue nurturing transformation. Learn more
about this session here.

This gathering offers a felt sense of the depth, tone, and field of the Spain Total Eclipse retreat, while standing fully on its own as a meaningful moment of insight, remembrance, and orientation.

Judy Chan

“If you’re longing for a fulfilled and magical life, join any of the SWYH offerings to be a member of a truly unique community where each member equally wants you to fulfill your goals and desires as you do.

Dan and Emily’s genuine care for each member of the community is evident in their generosity, attention, and desire to get to and clear the source of any obstacles in the way of your fulfillment.”

Emily Blefeld & Dan Cohen

Emily Blefeld and Dan Cohen are internationally recognized leaders in Systemic Family Constellations and the founders of Seeing with Your Heart. Together, they guide individuals toward healing inherited patterns, reconnecting with ancestral wisdom, and living with greater authenticity, love, and purpose.

Cecilia (Cilla) Utne

Cecilia Utne is the founder of Cross Cultural Journeys and a Family Constellations facilitator passionate about bridging personal healing with intercultural understanding. Through decades of global travel and exploration of inherited trauma, she creates experiences that invite connection, reflection, and a deeper sense of belonging.

Stephanie Gailing

Stephanie Gailing is an astrological advisor, author, and Family Constellations facilitator who helps people deepen their understanding of themselves through astrology, dreams, and systemic wisdom. Drawing on more than two decades of experience, she offers practical and soulful guidance that supports meaningful personal transformation.

The Facilitators

Dan Cohen, PhD specializes in helping individuals, couples, and families heal the effects of inherited trauma and fulfill their deepest longings for love, connection, and meaningful impact. He has a particular passion for addressing generational trauma passed down through war, genocide, and the legacy of slavery. Blending a near-encyclopedic knowledge of world history, mythology, and culture with an uncanny psychic awareness, Dan offers profound, transformative healing that restores peace of mind and expands new possibilities for life’s flourishing.
Before earning his PhD in psychology and training directly with Bert Hellinger as a Constellations facilitator, Dan was internationally recognized for his work in violence prevention and conflict resolution. As a former Strategic Planning consultant to the Director of the Los Alamos Laboratory, he pivoted away from national security to become a founding member of the City of Cambridge(MA) Peace Commission in 1981. For over four decades, he has devoted himself to understanding the violent and hostile urges that shadow the human heart.
Since 2000, Dan has been a leading voice in integrating personal, ancestral, and spirit consciousness into therapeutic practice. He holds a PhD in psychology from Saybrook University and an MBA from Boston University. Dan is the author of I Carry Your Heart in My Heart: Family Constellations in Prison and numerous scholarly articles and book chapters. He has led Seeing with Your Heart workshops and training courses across 19 countries in Europe, Asia, Australia/New Zealand, South America, Africa, and throughout the United States.
When he’s not with clients or teaching, Dan can be found writing reflections on a recent class, chasing the latest theories on consciousness, or reading scientific research most people wouldn’t touch without a glossary. He walks daily along the shore of Martha’s Vineyard with his dog Ruby, listening for eternal truths in the ocean wind—and occasionally offering dry commentary in return.
A devoted father, partner, and adoring grandfather, Dan lights up most when his family and dear friends are near. In his world, brilliance and humility walk side by side—stalking wise words and wisecracks in equal measure. Learn more about Dan at seeingwithyourheart.com
 
Emily Blefeld, LICSW, is an internationally recognized Systemic Family Constellations trainer, facilitator, and psychotherapist. With more than two decades of experience, she specializes in supporting change-makers, healers, and entrepreneurs to dismantle outdated paradigms, narratives, and ancient codes that limit their growth. Known for her extraordinary intuitive gifts and ability to commune with the ancestral realm, Emily skillfully attunes to the subtle dimensions of consciousness to help individuals release intergenerational trauma and live with greater authenticity, express their love more fully, and align with their life’s purpose. 
Emily’s professional approach integrates psychotherapy, coaching, and mentoring with advanced methods in Systemic Family Constellations, Core Energetics, Compassionate Spirit Release, and Women’s Mystery Traditions. She holds a Master’s of Social Work from the University of Minnesota and is certified in a range of therapeutic modalities that support holistic healing and transformation. Emily has presented at premier institutions including the Omega Institute, Kripalu, and the North American Systemic Constellations Conference, and served on the faculty of the North American Constellation Intensive. In addition to her private practice, she leads trainings and workshops across the U.S. and internationally in countries including Ireland, Scotland, Norway, Sweden, Hungary, New Zealand, Australia, Canada, Brazil, Bali, Germany, and Africa.
When she’s not guiding clients or leading workshops, Emily walks the ocean shore of Aquinnah, where she resides—gathering inspiration from the tides and the whispers of the land. She receives nourishment from ritual, gratitude, and the simple act of greeting each new day with movement under the rising sun, offering thanks for the unseen worlds that shape her path. Rooted in reverence and alive with boundless energy, Emily is frequently found in heartfelt gatherings with friends and family or joyfully supporting the creative visions of others. A natural night owl, Emily does some of her most inspired work under moonlight, when the veils are thin and her love of the liminal hums with possibility. Whether guiding a constellation or shaping magazine cuttings into soulful vision, Emily brings deep presence, mythic insight, and wild reverence for the mystery that connects us all. Her artistry bridges healing and imagination, inviting others to join her in the sacred dance between worlds. Learn more about Emily at seeingwithyourheart.com
 
Cecilia Utne and Cross Cultural Journeys (CCJ), Cilla is the Owner and President of CCJ, a small purpose-driven travel company focused on intercultural connections, global awareness, indigenous wisdom, and inner healing. CCJ – the travel entity helping with some of the logistics behind this retreat – was founded in California in the 1990’s and has taken thousands of travelers on deep and meaningful intercultural explorations worldwide.
Cilla is also a healing practitioner and facilitator of systemic and family constellations, and a former student of Emily and Dan at Seeing with Your Heart. Cilla’s new memoir When Roses Bloom explores the echoes of inherited and trans-generational trauma. A lot of the content of the text has come out of her deep work through systemic constellations. Since 2023, she lives between Roslagen, Sweden, and Bainbridge Island, Washington State, finding balance near the sea and forest. A native of Sweden and lifelong traveler, she has lived in Spain, the UK, Chile, and Guatemala. Learn more about Cilla at crossculturaljourneys.com.
 
Stephanie Gailing is an astrological advisor, self-care consultant, and family constellations facilitator with over 20 years of experience. She is the author of seven books including Planetary Apothecary, The Complete Book of Dreams, and Stellar Visions Oracle Deck. Co-host of the So Divine! podcast, Stephanie’s work has been featured in Vogue, Well + Good, MindBodyGreen, and numerous other media outlets. In addition to her counseling and education work, Stephanie also offers editing and writing services to wellness practitioners. Stephanie earned a Certificate in EcoPsychology from Pacifica University, Advanced Diploma in Coaching from New York University, and M.S. in Nutrition from Bastyr University. Learn more about Stephanie at stephaniegailing.com.

Register for When Your Light Is Eclipsed:

Free Zoom Event

June 20, 2026, 10:00am - 12:00 pm Eastern

A FREE online gathering, constellating the inner dance of light and dark
With prizes for those who attend LIVE!